LOSE YOURSELF, BUT DON'T GET LOST FROM YOU

"Getting lost is also the way." (Clarice Lispector)

At some point in our lives, it is inevitable that we enter some of the path deviations that come through our journey. Unable to walk right, following the rules and being rational all the time because we are humans and therefore we are subject to faults, errors, insecurities and fears. Giving in to weaknesses will be necessary so that we can understand the painful consequences of our mistakes and then we can retake our journey stronger and wiser and safer to the truth of what we want for our lives.

Although there are choices too harmful and dangerous as drugs, for instance. Losing control is necessary, in the sense that the confrontation with the dark underworld around us and also with the darkness within us, bring the exact notion of what and who we should avoid or get close to. Certainties can bring security, but they can also carry sameness, passiveness and convenience. They are unable to incite us to the continued and necessary reflection which faces the surrounding world. We must learn and re-learn, always.

So we can get out of our emotional center and return with greater chance of success. We always need to guide ourselves by our truth, in its entirety, without dissembling or imitations. For this purpose, we cannot succumb to the contrary opinions, most of them aggressive and violent, nor the fear of the unknown. Otherwise, although more peaceful, we will be doomed to a not enriching boredom, that comes from a formatted existence.

It is hard to conquer our place wherever we are, at home, at work, on the street, since intolerance is the premise that drives today's society, and from the moment that we are willing to turn our intimate core into everything that defines us as a person, we certainly will hear criticism and feel the coldness of the non-acceptance from others. However, we can be sure of who and what remains, will be everything that will feed our happiness.

Say what you think, live what you feel, breathe the air of transparency, act according to the rhythm of your senses, love who attracts and adds to you, be yourself, nothing less than that. The price paid by the suffocation of dreams is an empty life, an existence without belonging to anything or anyone. But living the truths themselves implies the scope of what is ours per right and merit.

Lose yourself, dive into uncertainties, experience the pain of the disappointment you cultivated, love deeply, always breathing the hopes that you carry within, for love will only fill us whenever we are truthful. And then we will be someone who made mistakes, but became happier, more genuine, more human.



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